CH4 The value of suffering
感想
看这一章的时候我总是会想起哲学的三个问题：我是谁？我从哪里来？我要到哪里去？这一章作者就在引导和帮助我们思考第一个问题，以及找到这个问题答案的作用。
甲之砒霜，乙之蜜糖。比如最近大热的电影《无问西东》，有的人看完说无聊到睡着，有的人却感慨到流泪。那为什么同样的东西大家的喜好会如此不同？其实本质就是价值观的不同。
再回看自己的内心，我们把什么视为最重要？金钱，地位还是家庭、朋友？很多时候我们内心忧愁本质是价值观除了问题，如果不从本质去剖析解决而只是解决表面问题。还是会有相同类型的问题发生。
字词
1． Out of whack
Everything based upon those values—the thoughts, the emotions, the day-to-day feelings—will all be out of whack.
out of whack American English if a system, machine etc is out of whack, the parts are not working together correctly:
造句 The computer system is out of whack again.
2． Spin
And there’s no positive way to spin it
spin (sb) a story/tale/yarn
■to tell a story, either to deceive someone or for entertainment
（为骗人或逗乐）杜撰故事，编造故事
造句：He spun the teacher an excuse for being late for school.
3．Vie for/with/to do sth
And because we are apes, we instinctually measure ourselves against others and vie for status.
to compete very hard with someone in order to get something争夺
Simon and Julian were vying for her attention all through dinner.
造句：The twins are vying for their mother's attention.
例：vie with
There are at least twenty restaurants vying with each other for custom.
例： vie to do something
All the photographers vied to get the best pictures.
