一个只想着赚钱的姑娘一定有故事，不是因为她有多喜欢钱，而是她终于明白，别人的屋檐再大，都不如自己有一把伞。

A girl who only wants to make money must have a story, not because she likes money, but because she finally understands that no matter how big other people's eaves are, it's not as good as having an umbrella for herself.

有一天，

女人或许可以用她的“强”去爱，

而不是用她的“弱”去爱，

不是逃避自我，而是找到自我，

不是自我舍弃，

而是自我肯定。

—波伏娃《第二性》

one day,a woman may be able to love with her "strength",

Instead of using her "weakness" to love,

Instead of avoiding yourself, but to find yourself,

Not self abandonment,but self affirmation.

你只想一个人待着，不敢出来

所以才会形单影只，没人疼爱

这样的日子，会不会显得有点奇怪

你不去看看蓝天，也该看看人海

人间有时候很冷，你得主动热起来

—风起

If you don't go to see the blue sky, you should also see the crowds of people.

Sometimes the world is very cold. You have to take the initiative to heat up.

When you can't calm down,

you will feel that you can't do anything

In fact

the best thing is to do nothing

Or go to the supermarket to

take some vegetables

Wash them carefully

Make a good meal

Step by step

Immerse yourself in cooking a meal

静不下心的时候

会感觉做什么都力不从心

其实最好就是什么都不做

或者去超市买菜

认真洗菜

好好的做一顿饭

一步步来

沉浸在做一顿饭的时间里

我命令你们成为优秀的长跑者

优雅前行穿越黑暗

前往高地

我最亲爱的姑娘们

我珍视你们甚于自己

—露西尔·克利夫顿

I command you to be good long-distance runners

Walk gracefully through the darkness

Go to highland

My dearest girls

I value you more than myself.

Girls , please do some reading. Reading, is the ferryboat in the wind and rain, is the rope to climb on the cliff, always can give us the power of redemption at the critical moment.

女孩子多读书吧! 读书，是风雨中的摆渡船，是峭壁上攀爬的绳索，总能在关键时刻赐予我们救赎的力量。

你说我不该拿走人间的光

可人间到底是什么形状

我看不见方向，不敢大爱一场

你说朝露很短，人生还很长

可就算我是火，也不能一直滚烫

是不是爱情对我们，从来都只是奢望

—风起

You said that the morning dew is very short and life is still very long,

but even if I am a fire, I can't always be hot.

Is it love for us always just an extravagant hope ?

You should first try to live your life well, and then choose the other half of your life, because being able to live seriously is also a remarkable thing

你要先努力把你一个人的人生过好，再去选择人生中的另一半因为能够活得认真也是一件非常了不起的事