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今日父亲节了!!

哏都双语推出咱们头马之父的语录,一起读读他的经典语录缅怀他。不忘初心!

下周二我们的英文会议更加精彩哦。欢迎来参加。

Ralph C. Smedley

American Founder of Toastmasters 

Author Quotes

所有演讲为了沟通,没有理解就没沟通

All speech is for communication,and there is no possibility of communication unless people understand.

1905.Ralph C. Smedley的首次demo会议

头马俱乐部就是为了帮你发现你是否被听众理解了。

Your Club can help you to find out whether you aremaking yourself understood.

Circumstances always modify rules.

成人教育最好在一个社交氛围中开展

Education is our business. It has been so from the beginning. I do not know just why or how I happened to hit upon the idea thatadult education could be handled in a social atmosphere,entirely apart from the formal classroom and standard academic procedure; but in some way I got that notion, and I have lived to see it not only recognized, but actually used, in circles where it was frowned upon a generation ago.

沟通能力是一个每个人都要用的才能。

Fundamentally, I believe thatthe ability to communicate is aGod-given talent,which ought to be used by all for the good of all.

激发和提升更多人的沟通才能

​It is our privilege to helpbring this talent into greater usefulness, so that it may be applied to the building of a better world, through the building of a better society made up of individuals who must act in groups.

I believe that in bringing improvement in the way of "better thinking, better listening, better speaking" to individuals, we are contributing to theimprovement of the societywhich is made up of these individuals.

无沟通,不成才,就好比玉不琢,不成器

I like the way that Orison S. Marden phrased his conception of speech training, when he wrote; "The ability to talk well is to a man what cutting and polishing are to the rough diamond.The grinding does not add anything to the diamond. It merely reveals its wealth."

头马价值远超于训练你面对观众,说出你的想法

In the course of years, as we gained experience, it was seen that our processes had values far beyondthe mere training of people to face audiences and speak their ideas.

沟通能力提升,不仅在于公众演讲技巧,还在于咬文嚼字(不论是口语还是书面语言文字)。

Communication was seen to have its effects in almostevery phase of life. Improvement was needed not only in public speaking, but in all use of words, whether spoken or written.

演讲训练的价值

Training in speech haddefinite values in many lines of improvement.Some of these may be listed thus:

1.It leads tothe discovery of hidden abilities, bringing these latent talents into use, and thusenriching the individual's life.发现自己的潜在能力,丰富个人生活

2.It broadens the person's conception of how to live with people. It helps in the integration of personality. 开拓个人社交认知,帮助自己完善自己的人格。

3.It brings out for use the leadership traitsand abilities, and thus helps to prepare the individual to be a leader. 激发出你的领导力风格和气质。

4.It opens the way to more creative and constructiveliving for the person who takes full advantage of the opportunities offered.创造性和建设性的生活方式。

It has been my conviction that formal courses should not be offered in the Toastmasters Club, but I have been compelled to prepare certain materials which our members classify as "courses," in order to give guidance which was apparently needed. It appears to me to be desirable thatthe members should work out their problems, and thenexchange their experiences,helping each otherby pointing out better ways as well as warning against ways which have not been found successful.

头马会员一起解决问题,互相交流经验,通过为对方指出优点和为对方指出改进的地方来互相帮助。

It is always the speaker's responsibility to make his speech effective. If he does that, applaud him, commend him, vote for him, even though he violated all the rules in the book? The test of the speech is not in following the textbook, but in making the sale.

It may be said that most of our members come into a club to achieve some definite purpose. 

That purpose may be to learn to speak in public, to overcome fear, to gain skill in conducting a meeting, or to be a contest winner, or it may be any one of many purposes.

 It is our obligation to help them to adopt the best purpose, and then to work to accomplish it. When this immediate purpose has been achieved, the individual is likely to drop out, unless the leadership of the club has been so good that he or she has been awakened to a realization of further personal possibilities.

It was the very evident need for practical help in theart of communication which led me to organize the Toastmasters Club in the first place.

People in my community needed this aid, and they were glad to accept it when it was offered in an attractive and practical manner.

The beginning was to meet a local need. There was no vision of future growth into a great organization.

知识激发自信,知识加自信克服面对观众的恐惧

Knowledge inspires self-confidence, and knowledge plus confidence will overcome fear of the audience.

Learning togive a speech is important, but almost equally so is learning to listen critically,analytically, and then to give the speaker the benefit.演讲固然重要,好的聆听更加宝贵。

Let’s !keep it simple?! Many have written about public speaking in the intervening centuries, but they have not changed the simple basic principles, nor have they added very much to them. 

50年的经验总结:通过实践来学习,做中学,通过批判性思考进行提升

My belief in the principles of learning by doing  and improving through criticismled to the use of the methods which have served through all the years in the work of the Toastmasters clubs.

My conception of the Toastmasters Club, and of the training which it affords, while based on certain fundamental principles of education, is quite largely the result of experiences and observations through thepast 50 years, when those principles have been put into practical use.

Added to these basic concepts is my conviction that the power to communicate is one of a person's greatest endowments. I believe that all civilized life grows out of that ability, and the uses made of it. I believe that the improvement of a person's ability to communicate his or her ideas is a means of improving life in all its phases, and that the progress of civilization depends on this improvement.

Leadership is  the capacity tolook ahead, think ahead, plan ahead, and then influence other people to go ahead on the plan.

Here we are, with tremendous opportunity before us. I challenge you to get to work to bring us up to a higher level ofservice.Let us share with others the benefits we have gained for ourselves.

我们在享受舞台中学的最多。

We learn best in moments of enjoyment.

Imagination takes the common place and glorifies it.


A story must pay its own way by contributing a thought.


The greatest speakers have usually been remarkable for the abundance of their ideas and their economy of words.

Toastmasters is learning through doing and improving through criticism.

A speech without a specific purpose is like a journey without a destination.

Faultfinding without suggestions for provement is a waste of time.

Ralph C. Smedley

下周二,6.19晚7点,哏都双语头马的英文会议

主题:Gaol,goal,gaol!

一起重温Ralph C. Smedley的Goal和初心!

关于我们

“天津哏都双语头马俱乐部”(Tianjin Bilingual Toastmasters Club)于2014年8月8日注册成立,隶属于头马国际组织全球第13区的88大区下属F中区的F1小区。

会议地址

天津哏都双语头马俱乐部于每周二晚19:00-21:00在天津市和平区洛阳道25号,玛雅室内设计事务所(小白楼地铁站B出口附近)举办活动,中文会议和英文会议交替进行,活动内容预告将于公众号发布,欢迎扫码关注。

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