什么是尊重?
What is respect?
尊重是平等地对待他人的心态及言行;
Respect actually is a kind of attitude that you believe it is important to treat others like the way you treat yourself and you really practice it.
是你每一次温暖的问候和善意的微笑。
Respect is your warm greetings and kind smile everytime when you meet somebody.
尊重是你真诚地看着对方,认真地听他说的每一句话。
Respect exists when you carefully listen to others with eyes, full of sincerity, looking towards them.
尊重是你对他人能力,素质,和成绩毫不吝啬的夸奖和鼓励。
Respect is also the praise and encouragement you give to others for their abilities, qualities and achievements with great generosity.
尊重是无论对谁,即便他与你有所不同,而且你并不认同,你都能以开放的心态去接受他。
Respect means that you accept somebody for who they are with open heart even when they are different from you and you disagree with them.
尊重会给你带来尊重,会给你赢得认可。会让你的生活充满爱与和平,会推动这个世界变得更加美好。
Your respect to others will reward you with others' respect and recognition, will make your life full of love and peace and then will contribute to the building of a better world.
尊重的好处这么多,大家其实也都知道。但为什么总是做不到呢?
When everyone is clear about the abundant benefits of respecting others, why many people can not make it?
我认为,原因主要有以下几点:
I believe the situation exists because of the following reasons:
这些人缺少被尊重的经历,因此不懂得何为尊重。连尊重自己都做不到,更不用不说尊重别人。
They are seldomly respected by others, so they don't understand what respect is. They don't know how to respect themselves, let alone respecting others.
有些人也有可能出于报复心理,即使知道该怎么做,也不愿意尊重别人。
There are also possibility that someone, motivated by revenge, just don't want to show respect even when they know how to do it.
还有一些人,他们有时候忽视你只是因为他们正在专注于一些别的事情,或是因为眼睛近视,所以在并非有意的情况下做出了一些“不尊重”你的行为。
And some people occasionally ignore you just because they are concentrating on something else or just have poor eyesight. They are showing "no respect" to you unintentionally.
我相信,只要你了解了他们的原因后,是可以理解他们的。因为换作是我们,也并不一定能做到。
I believe you will come to understand them when exposed to these reasons. If we were in the same situation as them, we would not make it easily either.