独立不是孤僻,it is not only for solve problem, but analysis and understand things, it requires Not controlled by others , able to make our own choices and decisions, able to reject advice ....able to stand strong and do what We want to do. using our own wisdom, thinking module, be objective to make decision. like be able to ignore parents control. meanwhile, independence requires courage and brave. for this point, enjoying to make mistake would be helpful.
key words: independence, own decision, courage, making mistakes