乐极生悲
像我这样的人是没见过什么世面的,一点点小场面,好消息,人就像失了魂一样手舞足蹈。所有的情绪都像要冲破脑壳,直登泰山顶。
就好比别人给了你一张彩票。说你有可能中五百万。然后我就拿着彩票不停幻想自己要怎么花这五百万,而且这蓝图还十分清楚。多年来的愿望一下子实现,脑袋里蹦跃的情绪,就像烟花一样,被冲的更高,噼里啪啦一般鲜活,仿佛这世界都要拘不住我,飘飘欲仙且不过如此罢了。
纵然我明白这世界绝不会像戏本听编导一样跌宕起伏,悲哀婉转,娓娓道来上演。但是依然按不住脑袋里那欢呼蹦跃的小人,一般表象为翻来覆去睡不着,做事情脚下像按的有风火轮一样呲溜一下就跑远了,脑袋总是有声音和影像在我眼前晃啊晃啊,我是多么一个普通的人啊.
我就很是疑惑,内心容量为何之小,这与我的世界观和一贯对自己的标准是严重不符的,脑袋里蹦出几个字,”你的问题是读书不多而想的太多”杨绛先生果然说的不错。
我又在内心深处反复质问,深刻剖析。总结出了以下几点,经历的幸运的事情太少了,所以一旦有个天大的好消息人就一下子冲破了情绪的那根弦,如同穷人中了五百万,弓上的越紧,弦才跑的越远,差不多就是这个道理。见过的场面太少罢。泰山崩于前而不改色,那都是谁呢,战场上身经百战的将军,商场上杀伐果断的商人,政治里泰然自若的政客。而我是谁呢,小小的普通人,还在为生计犯愁的普通人.其实这些看穿了,还是马克思说的那句经济基础决定上层建筑吧。
我想要怎样客服一下自己这泛滥的情绪,我总结了些许办法.做好事,捐款。做好事鉴于我的懒和还在上班稍微不太方便,就改捐钱,情为冲,花钱为泄。符合中医的阴阳平衡.以此来中和.再就是提高眼界,穷人最好的办法就是多看书读书,看书晓得了世界,就不会有坐井观天之想法而至于无知。最好克服现状的办法就是好好工作,投入到工作中去,无暇顾及其他。克服一个不好情绪,你不想投入到其中的最好的办法就是,投入到属于自己的工作中去.
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