The life is a succession of test. What struck me most about "Lady Chatterley's Lover" is the spirit of resistance of women to the status quo of their fate, the transformation of the being itself from a rigid robot to a real woman with flesh and blood, with a warmth and a glow of humanity.What Connie gives up is not a husband, she gives up the fame, the money and the life of pleasure that everyone is so desperate for. What Connie gains is not a man either, but a remnant of her natural, primal nature that remains in spite of the destruction of modern civilization, and a deep desire to live an ordinary life and explore the unity of mind and body.
The line "What is the one thing that lasts forever in married life? What is the one thing that can really sustain two people for the rest of their lives?" It made me ponder for a long time. I think it is responsibility. The essence of marriage is cooperation and win-win, the comfort of being together without being tired. I still believe that in a complex and chaotic world, relationships are the strongest bulwark. The real choice should be to see through the complexities of human nature and still choose true love with determination. It is braver to do one's best in love than to wait and see. I hope that every woman will have a hysterical love and a heartfelt marriage.
人生步步都是考验。《查太莱夫人的情人》最打动我的地方是女性对命运现状不满的抗争精神，实现了本体自身从僵硬的机器人向有血肉，有温度，散发人性光辉的真真正正的女人的蜕变。康妮舍弃的不是一个丈夫，她舍弃的还是人人都趋之若鹜的名誉、金钱，以及深深厌恶的享乐生活。康妮得到的也不是一个男人，她得到的是现代文明摧毁下依然残余的一丝自然、原始的本性，以及深深向往的平凡生活，探索实现身心统一的两性关系。
作品中那句“在婚后生活中，有什么是永恒的东西？真正能够支撑两个人一直走下去的是什么？”让我沉思良久。我想是责任。婚姻的本质是合作共赢，是一种相处不累的舒适感。我仍坚信在复杂纷乱的世界里，感情是最坚固的堡垒。真正的选择应该是看透人性的复杂之后，仍然去坚定地选择真爱。在爱里拼尽全力比踌躇观望的人更勇敢。希望每位女性都会有一段歇斯底里的爱情和肝胆相照的婚姻。
