Just now, I wechated with Dengyu, my claasmate in jufe, who has worked in a company for a while. As a naive person, I gave her much positive and active advice and tried to cheer her up. Honestly, I didn't put myself in her place and understand what she has experienced. Our external environment differs from each other and what suits for me may not be available

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for her.

Don't just say some positive words. Understand her and help her to solve problems.