But after studying how successful people spend their time and looking at their schedule hour by hour,I think this idea has it completely backward. We don't build the lives we want by saving times,we build the lives we want and then the time saves itself.
但在研究了成功人士如何使用他们的时间后，并且逐个小时审视了他们的日程表， 我认为这个理论已经完全落后了。并不是通过节省时间创造想要的生活，而是先创造想要的生活，然后时间就节省下来了。
Time is highly elastic.
时间的弹性是很强的。
"I don't have time",often means "It's not a priority."
“我没有时间”通常意味着这件事不重要。
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I don't want to minimize anyone's struggle.
我也不想小看任何人的努力。
Sometimes being positive doesn't mean you just speak out some propaganda,you have to do something for real.
积极并不只是简简单单的说出一些话,你需要真的做出一点什么。
So after that experience I learnt that there is no shame to be a loser,you just need to set some small targets and devote yourself.So these stories which happened to me shaped me as a positive pessimist.
从那以后我知道了失败并不可怕，你只需要设立小小的目标然后全身心投入.这些发生在我身上的故事塑造了我，成为一个积极的悲观者。
And I know nothing can stop me to be better.
而且我知道，没有什么能阻止我变得更好。
