Wendy (17)

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““What are you most proud of in the past 3 months?”. I am trying to make Wendy’s son speak English.

Her son keeps silent and I realize that my sentence is too complicated. I should use simple words…her son could not understand it so Wendy smiled and translated it while at the same time encouraging her son to answer. “Sophia will ask your mother the same question so you have time to think about it. Yes, I should ask Wendy, the son’s mother, first and then the same question for father Mr Zhang followed by the question for the son…

Wendy is wise to encourage her son and to avoid the embarrassment of me waiting too long for an answer.  The question is sent to Wendy automatically and she quickly provides the answer: “keep running, keep learning. In the past I ran in the evening so there was less time to accompany son and husband. I changed the time schedule getting up at 5am to enjoy running and see the sun rise while having the evening to stay with son and husband”.

ACCOMPANY! High quality accompanying time is setting up a warm family!

Mr Zhang’s answer is almost the same, to keep running and to lose 30 kg! The idea of running is to show the son that we need persistence in life.

A lot of parents set up goals for their child but they never achieve those goals themselves.  Wendy and her husband make the difference.he same time she encourage son to answer it "Sophia will ask same question of mother, you have time to think of it." Yes I should  ask the question to Wendy the son's mother 1st, then same question to father Mr.Zhang,  then ask the son...

Wendy is wisdom to encourage son and aviod the embassy of me to waite  too long of an answer. The question were sent to Wendy automatically, Wendy quickly provide the answer : "keep runing, keep learning. In the past I run at envning,  there is less time to accompany son and husband, I changed time schedule to get up at 5 to enjoy the running and the sun raise, to have evening time to stay with son and husband "

ACOMPANNY!  High quality acommpany time to set up a warm family!

Mr.Zhang's answer almost the same, keep running, lost weight 30kg! The idea to kick off running  is to do a demonstration to the son that we need to persistent in life.

A lot of parents set up goals of their child, they never go to achieve their goal by themselves. Wendy and MrZhang make the diffrence.

“What are you most proud of in the past 3 months?”. I am trying to make Wendy’s son speak English.

Her son keeps silent and I realize that my sentence is too complicated. I should use simple words…her son could not understand it so Wendy smiled and translated it while at the same time encouraging her son to answer. “Sophia will ask your mother the same question so you have time to think about it. Yes, I should ask Wendy, the son’s mother, first and then the same question for father Mr Zhang followed by the question for the son…

Wendy is wise to encourage her son and to avoid the embarrassment of me waiting too long for an answer.  The question is sent to Wendy automatically and she quickly provides the answer: “keep running, keep learning. In the past I ran in the evening so there was less time to accompany son and husband. I changed the time schedule getting up at 5am to enjoy running and see the sun rise while having the evening to stay with son and husband”.

ACCOMPANY! High quality accompanying time is setting up a warm family!

Mr Zhang’s answer is almost the same, to keep running and to lose 30 kg! The idea of running is to show the son that we need persistence in life.

A lot of parents set up goals for their child but they never achieve those goals themselves.  Wendy and her husband make the difference.

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Finally the son said that he is proud  because he is keep reading. Wooo ,I asked the name of the book, Wendy is trying to let the son to talk more, keep ask why(you like it), who( who is the key actor)...her raise question in one word , it is easy for son to understand. What's a love!

Child should proud of their parents. What make the son to love and proud of Wendy and MrZhang ? I am crouise of it.

This turn, I ask the son to select one word to describe Wendy ' s good personality in his eyes,sunch as work hard, pretty, soft,wisdom... The son selected the words "soft"

Woo,SOFT is the soul to be a mother , to be a famle. It is not only to talk in patient, but also include wisdom in talking, keep learning, positive, modesty,confidence,great believe and love.

The son is asked to selecte one words which he proud of his farther as well, it is "generous ! " His farther Mr.zhang said the reason is because he seldom to reject her son's requirements. I forgot to double check with the son it is true or not, from my observation, his farther love his job, positive ,passion in profession and life, I guess  it is the soul of genetous that 心有所属,心向太阳,it allow him to willing  spending time with family. It is genoresty!


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The language model is quite typcle as well. Wendy  used to guide and encourage the son to follow some rule, such as be polite, be active in talk  by saying"look at Sophia" "apply Chinese to answer it"" use two hands to take away stuff", MrZhang used to say No shyNoplay No move,don't jump,don't eat too much....  how Wendy applied the great conversation model?  I guess it bebifts from her work as a sales manager.

I guess she used to give clear instructions instead of criticize, she said she try to gain opportunities for her teammembers to see big world, she sent team to attend yearly global exhibition, bcs she opened eyes and mind from it, she think she should on behalf  a company to provid and creat a good everimont for team to do their best in their position .

Wendy, there are hubdreds possibilities in front of you bcs you are soft, you are keep learning and appling what you learned! Your son has a great monther, Mr Zhang has a pretty wife!

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