If there could be one person to beat me in a second, it must be my mom.
She could find every possible mistake/ error thought in me.
I used to be too romantic/ drama thinking in relationship, and she was down to earth, say get me back to the ground. I have to say if I really want to settle down, I should take her suggestions seriously. In that way, I couldn't control anything, and I felt a bit inferior, not to the lover but to the reality, the nature and the faith.