“看一部美国电影,叫《He's Just Not That Into You》―“其实他没那么喜欢你”,所有未婚大龄女青年都该去看一下这部电影。”豆瓣这么介绍这部电影,但是我看这部电影的初衷就是来源于这张图片,当时在猫弄上刷电影截图偶然看到这张图片顿时挺有感觉。此后陆续在各大帖子频繁看到这句话被引用,下定决心一定要看,结果找资源费了不少功夫,最终在迅雷找到,不过寝室渣网下了快两个小时才下好。
A girl will never forget the first boy she likes, even if things don’t quite work out. But usually someone is there to offer words of wisdom: “Honey, do you know why that little boy did those things and said those things? Because he likes you.” And there it is, that’s the beginning of our problem. Do you know what this means? We’re all encouraged…No!programmed… To believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk, that means he likes you. Why do we say this stuff to each other? Is it possible that it’s because we’re too scared and it’s too hard to say the one obvious truth that’s staring everyone in the face?——He’s just not that into you.
我想不管是男孩还是女孩都不会忘记自己曾经喜欢过的,爱过的人。
我本以为这部电影会真如他人所说毁三观,当我看到这些问题的时候更加确信了我的想法,两个人相爱,何必想那么多不希望发生甚至不会发生的事,多一分信任,少一分猜忌。然而,这部电影主要是针对广大单身女青年,可能在取向方面有些偏激。
吉吉是五个女生里我很喜欢的女生,也许她的爱情并不是那么顺利,也许她也没有像其他人那么受欢迎,可是心地善良的人最终都会收获幸福的。
Every movie we see, every story we’re told, implores us to wait for it. The third act twist. The unexpected declaration of love. The exception to the rule. But sometimes we’re so focused on finding our happy ending, we don’t learn how to read the signs, how to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don’t, the ones who will stay from the ones who will leave. And maybe this happy ending doesn’t include a wonderful guy. Maybe it’s you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this: Knowing that through all the unreturned phone calls, and broken hearts, through all the blunders and misread signals, through all of the pain and embarrassment, you never, ever gave up hope.
I'd rather be like that than be like you. I may dissect each little thing...and put myself out there too much...but at least that means I still care. Oh, you think you've won because women are expendable to you? You may not get hurt or make an ass of yourself that way...but you don't fall in love that way either. You have not won. You're alone, Alex. I may do a lot of stupid shit...but I know I'm a lot closer to finding someone than you are.
我们看过的每一场电影,听过的每一个故事,都是无法预知的爱情宣言。