A:
I read out this question to my girlfriend and asked her opinion. She gave me look from top to bottom and said "Do you think you would have been my boyfriend if looks did matter?" and walked away slowly.
I don't know whether to feel happy or sad :|
我把这个问题给我女朋友看，寻求其看法。她从头到脚打量了我一遍，一边慢慢远离我，一边说：“如果我非常重视你的外表，你认为你会成为我的男朋友吗？”
我不知道该感到开心还是伤心....
B：I absolutely love how there are 21 answers on this question, and almost all of them are from guys telling you how all girls care about are looks. One even goes to point out how out of the 10 things a girl wants in a boyfriend, 5 of them are related to being 'good-looking'. Well done, guys. You all have women completely figured out. slow clap
我非常喜欢这个问题下的21个答案，这其中的大部分来自男孩子的答案都在告诉你所有的女人都看脸。其中一个甚至指出了女孩最希望他的男朋友做的10件事，当中的5件事是关于如何保证脸好看的。好好做吧，少年。你将会得到所有女人的（赞赏？）“呆子”
Now, here's your answer, since I think you are in dire need of hearing one from a girl.
现在，给你一个答案，我认为你非常需要一个来自女孩子的答案。
You know what I find ridiculously sexy in a boy? Ambition. Someone who is passionate about at least one thing in his life, so much so, that it shows in every conversation he makes. I can find myself nodding to everything he is saying, because that's how much I relate and support his thirst of 'getting off your ass and getting things done.' All this time, the only thing that goes through my head is 'THIS. THIS GUY.' and how I live for days like these, where I get to meet people who can make me feel like I'm on a mission.
你知道我认为一个男生最有魅力的地方是什么吗？有抱负。一个人在他的生活当中能够有至少一件让其热衷沉迷的爱好，以至于，他讲话的时候常常围绕着这个话题。我发现我对他讲的总是总是感到无趣，因为我总希望他早点摆脱愚蠢然后把这件事情讲完。在这个时候，唯一出现在我的脑海里的是“这个、这个男人”和我要如何与他度过接下来的的日子，我得去哪里才能找到一个能够让我感觉到生命力的人。
This is what I look for in a boy, and if he can get one genuine laugh out of me during the evening, whether it is on a silly little pun or a hilarious sexual innuendo, he has all my attention.
这就是我想要找寻的男人，不管是简短的笑话还是双关语的暗示，他总能够在夜晚里惹我发笑，它能够吸引我的注意力。
This is what I find hot. I'd rather be with Mr. Personality over here than be with Mr. Cheekbones across the room. Hell, I've probably not even noticed Mr. Cheekbones across the room.
这就是我要找寻的热情。我宁愿和一个聊得来的人而不是和一位好看的人处在一起。痛苦的是。我可能甚至没有意识到一位帅哥曾经过我的房间。
I called up my boyfriend yesterday in the middle of the afternoon, to get a male perspective on a question I was answering on Quora about feminism. Best and the most intellectually satisfying conversation I've had all week. This is what I'm attracted to. This is what gets me going. This is what turns me on.
我昨天中午打电话给我男朋友，让他从男性视角来回答我回答过的在Quora上关于女权主义者的问题。那是我在整个周当中最满意和最理性的一次对话。这就是我为什么被他吸引的地方。这就是让我不断前行的地方，这就是不断启发我的地方。
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