psychology

love

The will to extend one's self for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another 's spiritual growth.

Falling in love is not the begin of real love but is the collapse of ego boundary.

When ego boundary returned, people realized there still two individuals actually.

There are two probabilities. One probability is the end of the relationship, the other one is the starting of the real love travel.

To truly grow up, and to experience the joyful sense of rebirth that accompanies the successful transition into greater maturity.

List in order of their occurrence, some of the major conditions, desires and attitudes that must be given up in the course of a wholly successful evolving lifetime:

The state of infancy, in which no external demands need be responded to

The fantasy of omnipotence

The desire for total (including sexual) possession of one's parent(s)

The dependency of childhood

Distorted images of one's parents

The omnipotentiality of adolescence

The "freedom" of uncommitment

The agility of youth

The sexual attractiveness and/or potency of youth

The fantasy of immortality

Authority over one's children

Various forms of temporal power

The independence of physical health

And, ultimately, the self and life itself.

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