There are all sorts of people in this world.Some are good people,the other are bad people.We all can't avoid meeting those people who have bad minds.At that time,we may be cheated,may be hurt and so on.Then, we need some time to heal,that's a matter of course.
During the healing period,some people will choose to revenge,but others choose to forgive.I don't want to persuade anyone to forgive some people who ever hurt you. I just want to say:If you can lay down those unhappy things and people,you will be happier than them.You will get more than them.Laying down is not equal to forgiving.
There is a saying:“Those who kill demons must also be polluted by the blood of demons, and become demons themselves”(杀死恶魔的人,必定也被恶魔的鲜血所污染,自己也变成了恶魔。)I know it's difficult to lay down enmities,because enmities ever hurt us deeply,these even give us indelible harm.Why we choose to lay down.In order to live better.We revenged others,we just got a temporary happiness.,you can't remedy things you ever lost.What is lost forever will not come back for revenge.
So,please keep kind forever.It is not equal to forgive those people who ever hurt you,it's to stop hurting other innocent people,including you.
Keep kind forever is not an easy thing.Someone spend their the whole life in this thing.They are brave and tolerant.They don't forgive,they just don't want to look into(追究).
(Ps:第一次在简书上面写英文文章,如果有哪些需要改进的地方欢迎大家提意见,诚挚感谢您!)