Many days I sit in cafe and notice more and more people keep playing their phones. Like some people said , social media makes many people more lonely rather than happier .
Our happiness depends on how many likes /comments we get. Sometimes if we don’t comment , that may make friends owe a grudge against you . Sometimes we click “ like “ on someone’s post which you don’t like at all, only because showing off in pretentious language also a very common and modish social way on the media.
Our heart or mind just like a land. Once the grass land is overgrazed, the vegetation will be demaged and the ground will become liable to erosion. Generally speaking, people will reciprocate the kindness that have been shown to them before . But nowadays, it becomes harder to show the kindness only by clicking because both the mock feelings and sincere feelings are mixed . We become more and more lazy contributing some relevant kindness embodying friendship or love or family affection.
Actually before I hate lots of habits in nepotist society , until now I think some habits are not good too. But the things happends on my mom remind me the good aspects of that sometimes . Such as when she was in hospital, her old friends and relatives carried heavy natural foods from hometown which hundreds miles away to visit her. In her birthday, her brother also came to celebrate in long distance . It’s nothing about money , it’s just good that someone still wants to do something for you without any requirement, only because they think that’s the proper things they should do to families or friends.
But in youth generation, actions are not popular than words. Social media is versatile, we can send red pocket, we can order most things on apps , it’s easier to give other things if we want , but it’s harder to show how much we care each other on apps . I am not pining for the old period , I am just thinking how can we balance the advantages and disadvantages of different time periods. Because if more and more people ‘s hearts grow moss , just like the rocks near the river staying too long in the moist weather without sunlight, we will lose the chances to enjoy the real life’s real happiness.
Not only about my life , also all the people I care , I don’t hope their love and belief are moribund and maltreated by disappointments in life . I know how modish media is, and my purpose is not trying to persuade people disobey them. Hope we all won’t hold grudges, and embrace the sunshine.
